Rituals and it's effect in child mentality 
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Rituals and it’s effect in child mentality

Rituals and it's effect in child mentality 
Rituals and it’s effect in child mentality

Rituals and it’s effect in child mentality 

As I born and brought up in India and belongs to Hindu religious family, So I am mostly aware about the rituals, festivals, perceptions, ways of celebrations, traditions etc. of my own religion. While explaining about Rituals and it’s effect in child mentality.  I am referring towards my own rituals as exemplary. Readers may applied with their own religions. It may vary country to country and religions as well. Child will able to understand and follow as per their parental faith as well as followings. This includes the morality and ethics of life. It helps in carving out a great personality. Listed article is all about the norms and values for perfect and proper up-bringing.


Everyone is aware of the vastness of (Hinduism) Sanatan Dharma, one of the oldest religions of the world. Hinduism is a large set of different religions and beliefs that have been in place since ancient times. Whatever rules have been made for the life of a person in this religion. It also have a scientific basis. Like life is divided into four phrases. It is considered mandatory for a person to follow 16 types of rites. The credit for making these rules of life creates a special bonding in relations. From the birth of man till death, sixteen sacraments have been made and followed accordingly.

Kinds of rituals with moral Values

While defining the sacrament (Sanskar – multiplication of virtues and division of personality) , it’s a big bond of qualities. Correcting, removing defects and errors, generating positive thoughts in the mind, purifying oneself, enrichment, culture, courtesy, custom, religious acts, etc. are all part of the ritual. It is the consciousness of any religion, which teaches the living behaviors, those who believe in that religion. Rites are the hallmark of our religious and social life. There is a provision of 16 rites for Hindus. It is believed that following them increases the life living qualities. However, the number of rites is also different in different scriptures. Mystics have done research to make us cultured and social and then compiled the rules after seeing the results. Sixteen rites of Hinduism have also been recognized by physicians and scientists associated with social science and psychology.


Initially from the beginning, first rite is conception. This is the first rite of human life to attain worthy, quality and ideal children. It has been called the conception ceremony. After entering the household life, this rite has been recognized as the first duty. Parents desiring the best progeny should perform this ritual for their purity of body and mind for conception. Under this, before the birth of the child, the man and woman should measure their health and mental state. According to the rules, date, constellation etc., pregnancy should be done. So that the baby can be healthy.


Next Rite Pumsavan (quickening the fetus) Under this, it is kept in mind that on getting pregnant, an efforts done to prepare the future mother’s diet, ethics, behavior, thinking, emotion, all good as well as properly balanced. Like good food, positive atmosphere, family blessings, etc. are very important. If the environment of the family is not positive after the birth of the baby, then it makes a difference on the mental development of the new life to come. Therefore, it is compulsory to have spiritual worship recitations, discourses, deeds etc. It is said that a pregnant woman should meditate on sacred texts like Gita, Ramayana (epics of ancient India) daily. With this, the thought system of the baby also develops very well.

 

The Third sacrament is – demarcation. This ritual is an extension of Pusvan. It literally means “marginal” meaning “hair and elevation” means “elevating”. This rite is performed in the sixth or eighth month of pregnancy. This is a kind of purification process of the womb. During this time the brain and heart of the child is developing. If the mother lives in an environment where good qualities, temperament and deeds are done, then it definitely has a positive effect on the brain formation of the baby. Referring to the epic of hinduism, It is said that the devotees used to teach Prabhalda’s mother Kayadhu to Devarshi Narada Bhagavad Bhakti. Prahlada had worn it while listening in the womb itself. Similarly, Yasaputra Shukdev had acquired all the knowledge in his mother’s womb.


Fourth sacrament can be said as caste work. After birth, there is a law to perform this rite before a newborn baby’s placenta (ie, cutting-up the placenta). For this, a mixture of two drops of desi-ghee (homemade butter) and six drops of honey is prepared. Which is chopped with the articulation of poetic hymns of their religions. After this, the mother breastfeeds the child. This entire process takes about 30 minutes. Scientists also believe that within 30 minutes of the birth of the child, She should be fed breast milk. Whereas, this rule has been written centuries ago.


Further the fifth Rite is better termed as – Nomenclature. It is a psychological fact that human beings are called by the name. It has a small feeling of the same kind. That is, the name has an effect on its nature. This is why people change their names when problems arise in life. So that, the negative impact can be reduced. Keeping this fact in mind, Muni (holy man ) do a naming ceremony. In which it is decided that the child’s qualitative names should be kept. The advantage of having a name according to the constellations or zodiac signs is that it helps to make a horoscope. Usually this rite is performed on the tenth day of birth. Prevention of purification of birth is also done on the same day.

 

Now while writing about the sixth Sacrament, as exodus which termed as eject. Even after the baby’s name is kept, it is kept with the mother for a few days. It includes the process of showing the light of the sun and moon to the newborn. Science also accepts that if the cold sunlight in the morning and the cool shadow of the moon falls on the newborn in the evening, then he is safe from serious diseases like jaundice, typhoid. Whereas, the logic of its first sages is to formulate a hypothesis to make the baby bright and polite. There is a way to perform this ritual in the fourth month of birth. For three months, the baby’s body is not suited to the external environment like strong sun, strong wind etc. In the fourth month, he is brought to the external environment and then gradually he becomes his primal.


Next is the seventh sacrament is of feeding with food ( Annaprashan ), In this rite, the child is feed with food items. Initially infant gets growth only by mothers milk. In the sixth month from birth, his Annaprashan is performed. In which food is to be kept in a silver bowl or plate. Generally feed with kheer (combination of rice and milk combinedly cooked and added sugar. When hot milk pudding is poured into the silver bowl, silver nutrients are added to it. Which are necessary to make the body strong.

 

Eighth Sacrament is performed as removal of hair’s ( Mundan ). It is specified as a law to perform this ritual in the first, third or fifth year of a child. The concern is to remove the unholy hair produced at birth and make the child sharp. During nine months of pregnancy, hair gets contaminated. Since the skin of the head is very soft at first, the hair can’t be removed. As soon as the baby reaches the age of one year or more, skin becomes little stronger. Many defects are eliminated by this ceremony. This ritual is performed with full chant. In which the day, date and time have special significance.


The Ninth sacrament is about ear-piercing. It isn’t only mandatory for daughters but also for sons. In scientific language it is called acupuncture. According to which acupuncture calms a person’s mind and helps in keeping heart rate normal. Whereas according to religious fact, diseases are removed and hearing power also increases.

Rituals and it's effects on child mentality
Rituals and it’s effects on child mentality


While adding the tenth Sacrament of scholar, alumnus or student life. In the ancient times, when there was a tradition of residential school (Gurukul), the child was made aware of the letters in the house before sending them for schooling. Even today, on the day of Basant Panchami (festival that marks the preparation for the arrival of spring), the first letter is written by the child. As a popular belief, goddess Saraswati, who is said to be the deity of learning, music and art was born on this day and people worship her to achieve wisdom. It begin in the auspicious time and after that the child starts further studies.

 

Eleventh Sacrament is refer to the sacred cord ceremony or thread ceremony (upanayan). An initiation ceremony undergone by hindu boys over the age of seven, marking the start of their formal education. It can be defined as the ceremony of submission of the responsibility of the boy towards the teachers, who are considered as a holy performance. In this, the boy is worn with a thread. The sacred thread made of yarn that the particular wears above the left shoulder and below the right arm.


The next Rite numbered twelfths is can be defined as starting of knowledge ( Vedarambha ). it includes, about given knowledge of ( Vedas ) basics scriptures of hinduism. However, in today’s scenario it is almost over but some families have kept this tradition alive. It is very important to develop the child intellectually as well as mentally. It also helps in elaborating about the practical and spiritual progress is recognised. If the child is not aware of the Vedas in the skill, then it is the responsibility of the family to inform and teach about religion, culture, ethics, values etc. In the ancient times, before Vedarambha, Acharya used to promise about disciples and observe Brahmacharya fast, while living a moderate life. Also, after giving examination, they still used to study. During, this phrase, each student masters their own branch of knowledge in accordance to their lineage.

 

Thirteenth Rite is inclusive of cutting hairs ( Keshant )
This ritual was performed in front of teacher ( Acharya ) after completing Vedhyayana in Gurukul. However, now that the gurukul is not there, the importance of this ritual is going away. This sanskar is an undertaking to bid farewell to the Gurukul and enter the householder’s labor. In this, the hair is made for the first time, and after bathing becomes pure.

 

Fourteenth Rite is all about Inclusion. This means that the end of studentship and returning to home ( Brahmachari ) after psychologically preparation for the struggles of life. It involves a ritual sacrificial bath ( kind of bath which marks

the end of long observance of bachelor ) . When the bath is performed after removal of hair’s, it comes under the ritual which is performed by the family to mark a person graduated and entering toward the new world of profession ( Samvartan Sanskar ). This bath was held with special meditative repetition of divine name. With this, the child gets permission to go to the marriage ceremony.


Fifteenth Rite is about to getting Married. After following all the above stated rites, they gets the right to start a family life by getting married. After the study, when the youth has the ability and maturity to carry out the social tradition. Only then it is made part of the responsibility of the family. In the specified culture, observing the fasting as bachelor for about the period of approx 25 years long is said to be mandatory. There are different types of marriages mentioned in scriptures

 

The final Sixteenth Rite is about Cremation. It is customary to burn his dead body in funeral pyre after the death of someone. This process is called the funeral procession or funeral rites. According to Hinduism, only the son has the right to offer fire to the father and mother. However, now social change is begin and daughters are also performing the last rites. Under the last rites, it is mandatory to do different deeds for few days.


Quick note and popular phrases of Ramayana with inclusive of few rites as mention ahead in this article.



Before stating ahead, I heartily welcome, and greet – The Prime Minister of India (name of a country), Shri Narendra Modi ji, The revered Sarsanghchalak of the Union, Shri Mohan Bhagwat ji, The Chief Minister of Uttar Pradesh, India, Yogi Aaditya Nath ji, etc. Who has come to perform the Bhumi Pujan for the construction of Shri Ram Temple, a symbol of the faith of the countrymen in Shri Ram Janmabhoomi Ayodhya. I also congratulate all the noblemen, who have come to witness of this historic moment.


Shri Ram ji ( God ) isn’t of any particular community (dharma) or religion. Millions people fought and lost their lives for the Ram Ji’s temple for the last 500 years to till date, crores of crore non-political Hindus all over the world are also giving their contribution to build this temple. And are waiting with full heart for its creation, which many people from generations been dreaming from many years long.



The temple of Lord Rama will built-up in Ayodha ( name of Place in India ) This temple is being built of Hindu identity which was being trampled for hundreds of years, of Hindu self-respect. Which was constantly being hurt, the dignity and pride of liberal Hindus. Who were brutally crushed by the terrorists. This temple is a symbol of Hindu renaissance, a proclamation of Hindu revival. It also indicates the resurrection of Hindu self-confidence. The ancient setting is the confirmation of the rise of Hindu civilization. This temple is a tribute to millions of Hindu-Sikh-Jain-Buddhist sacrifices. This temple is of the Supreme Father Goddess Shri Rama who existed in the heart of every Hindu and their belief.


Goddess Shri Ram ji an unborn, eternal, divine nature, Brahman, the whole world is their temple, they are seated everywhere, in the moon, stars, sun, earth, sky, space, animal, beings, flowers, leaves and particles in the world. They are all over Ayodhya and other temples. Lord Rama achieved success by controlling the situation even in odd circumstances, he always followed the Vedas and Maryada. They supported justice and truth by compromising their own happiness. As mentioning further about the qualities of Lord Rama that made his life successful and those qualities of Shri Rama that made him be called Maryada Purushottam.


Tolerant and patience are the main qualities of Lord Rama. Despite being the king of Ayodhya, Shri Ram spread his life like a monk. This shows his tolerance. Lord Rama always as kind hearted. He took pity on everyone under his patronage. He empowered everyone to lead. Giving the kingdom to Sugriva is a reflection of his compassionate nature. Lord Rama always spreader equality among every caste as well as every class. Shri Rama fulfilled every relationship with heart. Even though, his friendly behavior despites to be faced many problems.


Superior leadership ability. Lord Rama was a skilled steward. He was not taking anybody with him. It was only because of the superior leadership of Lord Rama, also displayed a sense of sacrifices, dedication as well as affection for all. For this reason, while going to exile of Lord Rama, Lakshman ji (lord Rama’s brother) also went with him to the forest. Not only this, Bharat served the public by keeping Ramji’s footstool on the throne keeping in mind the values ​​of Lord Rama, despite getting the Rajapat in the absence of Shri Rama.


Every person wants to touch the dimensions of success in his life, but not every person is able to succeed in it. Some people climb the stairs of success. To achieve success or become a successful ruler, boss, team leader, one must possess many qualities. We can learn many qualities from the character of Lord Shri Ram, which will help to touch the dimensions of success. Lord Sri Rama was an avatar of Vishnu himself. He had immense powers, but he never misused it. Despite being the best, he used the bow arrow in accordance to the circumstances. His life was very limited, thus also know and interpreted as Purushottam Rama.


Prabhu Ram always walked on the right path and showed humility. In the same way, we should also do everything by being restrained. So that no one can termed us wrong. Wherever you are in any area, people judge you by your work. Prabhu Shri Ram always took everyone along. A successful boss is not the one who gives orders, a good or successful leader is the one who boosts everyone’s morale and gives everyone a chance to prove themselves at their best.


Further Goddess Ram ji spread the message for good livelihood as – obey everyone’s advice and even handed the responsibility of leadership to others in accordance with the time frame. Ram ji completed every task with a plan. Lord Shri Ram also killed Ravana with complete planning. Otherwise it was not easy to kill him. We also need to start planning and start every work. So that we can succeed. Unplanned work is embedded with obstacles/hurdles and also the work remains incomplete in between. Planning is essential to achieve your goal. A successful leader identifies the qualifications, talent, capability as well as specialization of team members, Prabhu Shri Ram assigns the task to everyone according to their ability and they succeed in every task. He also assigned many tasks to increase efficiency of many people.


Ethical outcome – those who had the same nature, they were engrossed with joviality and delighted.

Explain if children are under peer pressure
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If children are under peer pressure

Explain if children are under peer pressure
Explain if children are under peer pressure

Explain if children are under peer pressure

The peer pressure sometime raised so high and end up as life threatening for particular. Parents need to be alert and timely verify so than they can protect children from such situations as – negligence, exploitation, abuse, violence or any other risk at home or in the society while paying full attention to their health and safetyBecause “peer pressure is always negative”.


Child protection is also require as providing support and rehabilitation to the child in the event, that he has become a victim of an unusual burden. If we do not protect our children, they will face risks such as death, permanent disability, poor physical and mental health, educational problems, displacement and isolation of homes.


There are many traditional incidents against children in different parts of the country which are cruel to children and endanger their lives. On many occasions, children lose their lives even due to superstitions spread in the society. According to experts, since childhood, the effect of social conformity arises.
As resisting negative peer pressure


Generally, there is more pressure in them aged of approx. 11-15 years, but parents do not understand this pressure. It also has a positive effect, which leads to the development of extra-curricular activities. But in today’s changing environment, collective impact has few negative phrase as well, such as class bunking, lying to parents, stealing, smoking etc. So to secure kids from such a negative phrase, Parents need to verify and tackle, If children are under peer pressure
or resisting negative peer pressure.

What causes peer pressure ?

How social pressure influence in adolescent life 

Stress in children is also like tension in adults, but their reasons may be different. There is a different kind of phrases around children which has a right and wrong effect on them. They can face such scenario anywhere at home, school, tuition, play ground etc. At this time, changes in their lives also develop very fast. If children are under peer pressure than using few trick, parents focus and grab the root of children and able to do corrections (if required) and also rectify the mistakes timely


In such a situation, it is difficult to say which thing becomes the reason for such scenarios. Also it impacts the performance of the child and his mind is always depressed. Fighting with friends – Friendship is a beautiful relationship and what to say about childhood friendship. Any cracks in it can spoil one’s mood. Often few share their talk with friends only.


Children friends are also very important for them. In such a situation, fighting with friends can bring them to community sentiment. Nerve racking atmosphere at home – If there is a grievous atmosphere in the house, it is natural for the child to come oppressively. In today’s changing lifestyle and rapidly growing cities, the credibility of relationships is decreasing and divorce cases are increasing.


Due to poor relationship between husband and wife, their children also get affected and traumatic conditions are increasing and resisting negative peer pressure
. While Spending more time on gadgets, like TV, computer and mobiles have become a part of most people’s lives and children are also spending more time in them. Because of this their physical activity has decreased.


Nowadays children are paying attention in these gadgets compared to sports, which leads them to loneliness atmosphere. How to detect tension in children
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Positives effects – if children are under peer pressure

  • Get inspiration for education.
  • Students try to remain regular by leaving late in school.
  • The academic performance of the students becomes good.
  • Inspire to participate in sports, courses and extracurricular activities in school. But sometimes classmate friends can also have the wrong effect due to which children become victims of wrong things. In such a situation, at times parents also become aggressive on the children with stress and if the parents try to force the children, then it has the opposite effect and the children also become aggressive while talking to their parents. They start hiding and lying about their concerns also become habitual of the same. In such situation, Parents need to understand – Child behavior management strategies for best handling.

How to protect school students if children are under peer pressure? As we all know about peer pressure is always negative. It is a matter of contemplation. Actually it isn’t wrong if any mistakes or errors done by children. Wrong, it will be if nothing learned from those mistakes.

Negative effects of peer pressure

  • Attracting beauty and fashion tips.
  • Inappropriate consumption of medicines to reduce weight or health.
  • Engaging in adult relationships.
  • Copying or cheating in the examination.
  • Bad habit of running away from school or class.
  • Consumption of drugs.
  • The habit of drinking in children under 18 years of age.
  • Getting used to smoking or eating tobacco.
  • Withdraw money stolen from parents’ pockets. Many children bring a lot of pocket money from home.

Brief Details – How can you resist negative peer pressure

Unique guide to deal and treat peer pressure

If your child is in tension, find ways to overcome it immediately, or it may resisting negative peer pressure. As soon as you hear the tension of children, execute further as –

Spend time together

Parents should spend time with their children. Children are the closest to their parents and want to spend some quality time with them. Parents should give them time until the children grow up. let’s be friend – Some parents scold children for minor mistakes.


They only impose their decisions without listening to any of their views. This creates a feeling of fear from parents in the minds of children, due to which they are afraid to say their things. Parents also need to be friends of their children so that they share all their things with them.


If there is any untoward incident in the school or outside with the child or something that brings him into tension, listen to him patiently and try to understand. In such a situation, scolding children can prove fatal.

Do not put pressure

Parents often try to keep children at the forefront. Due to this expectation, they keep asking the children to come first and again, due to which the child becomes a victim of mental pressure. In such a situation, parents should understand that every human has different abilities.


Parents should not put any kind of pressure on children to top the exams, games and other activities. They should encourage children to participate. Then the child loses or wins, he should be convinced that he is with his child in every condition.


This brings confidence in the child and he also performs better by being tension free. Parents who want their children to be developed with high self-esteem, they make a certain parameters of treating them with respect and courtesy.


It is also necessary to give freedom to children, but this does not mean that they are allowed to do anything unnecessarily. Giving freedom to children means that they understand what they want to do in their career and help in giving right direction. Apart from giving children the right to take some decisions, they start thinking themselves important.

Create a happy atmosphere

If the child is tensed, then it can be reduced by making the environment around him happy. First of all, it should be noted that the atmosphere in the house should be cordial. Even if she is still under stress, the parents should look at the atmosphere of school, tuition and other places where the child has to go daily.


If something is wrong, take immediate action. Change the routine/If the child is in tension, parents should immediately start trying to get him out of that condition. For this, you can pursue him in an activity like dance class, swimming etc. Can take for outing. Changing the routine in this way will divert attention and reduce tension.


Go to psychiatrist. Often people do not go to psychiatrists for tension because they start going madly to psychiatrists. This is a misconception. It is not crazy to consult a psychiatrist. If the tension is not over, take the child to the psychiatrist. Psychiatrists often control the situation through counseling.


This counseling is also given to the parents along with the child. This results in rapid improvement in the child. Difference between psychiatrist and psychologist. Often people get confused between psychiatry and psychologists and do not understand who to go under tension conditions.


Psychiatrist cures mental illnesses with drugs while psychologist tests counseling, psycho therapy, IQ test, personality test etc. In the event of tension, the cognitive behavior works. Psychiatry or psychologist can also be reached to anyone if there is pressurization atmosphere
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What does Peer pressure psychological theory specify – It vary from person to person and their up-bringing parameters.

How does peer pressure affect a child ?

Let us know – Ignoring the pain is the uncertainty of life, the struggle in the present and the shattered future absolutely breaks the students or children. Since coming first in class, the pressure to be active in cultural and artistic activities takes away from students their natural talent.


Not only this, they want to perform despite being injured, just because they want to be the best. Just ignoring the pain can be dangerous for their mental health in future. When children are not able to perform well due to this pressure, then lack of emotional support and parental nature hurts their self-esteem. Because of this many children take some unusual steps and generates many terrifying situations.


The stress of admission to the best colleges and institutes or the pressure to get a good number makes the children study till late night and as a result they suffer from mental depression due to which they don’t have proper sleep. Lack of sleep affects both their physical and mental health.


Instead of learning when the fear of mimicry focuses on achievement, children look for easier ways and undefined as well as unusual short-cuts to achieve success. Whether it is a small child or a big one, they doesn’t consider any harm in copying, even few invest money for cheating. In mutual competition, children do not hesitate to cheat their friends.


This is a wrong trend, which can become dangerous later. The risk of suicide sometime get raised, but it is wrong to makes child a machine in the name of studies. One thing that children are most afraid of today is the fear of failure. Fear of not meeting expectations may also force them to take some wrong steps.


According to the survey on an average one student is embracing death every hour. One of the main reasons for this is the expectation of better performance in the exam.

Positive phrase about pressure on few children

The battle of self-esteem has become an indispensable standard of today’s performance. While ‘peer pressure’ mostly affects in a negative way, it can also be positive, that is, the pressure exerted by our old friends can be for the wrong things, in the same way it can sometimes hit you or your friends. Can also make a good impression.


‘Peer pressure’ means work done under the influence of our old friends, which can be negative, it can be beneficial as well, as if you are very fond of reading, then you may have read your own. One can impress old friends by telling them about good books and then they will also start reading good books after getting influenced.

In the same way, one may also become very good in sports or studies, influenced by friends and become better in sports or studies like them. That is, if anybody want, than peer pressure can be adopted in its good form. It will make better in every task for learning good things and also for healthy competition.


When it comes to the mental state of children, negativity and negative behavior are evident from their activities. Repeated illness of the child is a common symptom of stress. In the case of teenagers, stress caused by excessive pressure creates a state of rebellion and the child becomes a victim of depression.

Proper guidelines, along with mental support

  • Be friendly with them, so that they share their every thing with you.
    Instead of punishing child when they make a mistake, explain them with love.
  • Develop positive thinking and habit of sharing with behavior of be honestly.
  • Promote their creativity. Encourage them to participate in creative activities.
  • Praise them by winning a contest, encourage them by rewarding them.
  • Keep complete information about his friends.
  • When there is a change in the behavior of child, immediately meet their teachers and friends. Chat with them in detail about this.
  • Teach them to say ‘no’ politely rather than being under pressure from friends.
  • Tell some ways to avoid social stress.

‘As per teenager’s wish one could say, Mummy-Dad, I am your child, not a robot.

Common illness/sickness and initial treatment
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Common Illness/Sickness and Initial treatment

Common illness/sickness and initial treatment
Common illness/sickness and initial treatment

Common illness/sickness and initial treatment

We experienced our parents’ care when we were sick as children, but the job of caring for our own sick children seems awesome. As parents we act as paramedics, comforters, and companions to our sick children. Until your children can tell you what’s bothering them, these roles can be especially difficult. Many of the tips related to the Doctor Visits, are apply to the care of toddlers and preschoolers as well as infants.

List of Common illness/sickness and initial treatment.

Taking Temperature

Digital Thermometer have made this job much faster and easier for parents. Glass thermometers are no longer recommended because of the risk of mercury poisoning if the glass breaks. The rectal temperature is the most accurate. it will be one degree higher than an oral temperature.


Other methods will give you a ”approx” temperature if you simply want an indication as to whether your child is suffering from fever. One is to kiss your child’s forehead. (The temperature of your lips is more stable than that of your hands). Other options include axillary (armpit) thermometers, the ears thermometer (not recommended in children under three months), and the forehead strip. It’s important to tell your doctor which method you used when you report a temperature.

  • Make insertion of a rectal thermometer easier by smearing petroleum jelly on it.
  • Give your child an egg timer to watch while the temperature is being taken. Or let your child watch TV or listen to a song, or sing one together to shorten the wait.
  • Don’t take your child’s temperature immediately after bath; this can affect the temperature reading.

Giving Medication

One of the hardest things about giving medicine to babies and small children is getting it all down. Don’t try putting it in a bottle of formula or juice, you won’t know how much your baby has received if all the liquid isn’t taken.

  • Give your baby liquid medicine in a nipple. (Make sure all the medication appropriate to take by filling the nipple with a little water for your child to suck). Or use an eyedropper, vitamin dropper, or medicine syringe (without the needle), which you can buy at the drugstore. Squirting into the cheek area (not down the throat) is easy,, there’s no mess, and 5 milliliters (ml) equal one teaspoon.
  • Give bad-tasting medicine by holding your child’ nose until the medicine is swallowed. Then give some gum or a drink while counting to hold your child’s nose.
  • Many of today’s good- tasting medicines can be frozen as popsicles, but check with your doctor first!.
  • Ask your physician for the more concentrated medicine. Many antibiotics come in two strengths : 125 milligrams [mg] per 5 ml [or the teaspoon ], and 250 mg per 5 ml .If the dose is 250 mg. You only have to get your child to swallow half a teaspoon of the more concentrated medicine instead of a whole teaspoon of the lees concentrated type.
  • Chilling liquid medicines can improve the flavor.
  • Call medicine “the slime” or some other humorous name. Most medicine these days are quite tasty, which actually causes safety problems because a child may wish to take major when you’re not around
  • Use a hollow, graduated medicine spoon for giving medicine to older children. Check your drugstore or talk to your pharmacist.
  • Hold a paper cup under your Child’s chin when giving liquid medicine. Spills can be mixed with water or fruit juice and drunk from a cup.
  • Taste your medicine yourself, and tell your child if it tastes bad. If it does, rub an ice cube over your child’s tongue to numb the taste
  • Wrap a small child in a bath towel to limit physical residence.
  • If your child absolutely refuses medicine by clamping his jaws shut, gently squeeze his nostrils shut. His mouth will open quickly.
  • An older child may enjoy watching the procedure in a mirror.

Pills skills and drills

  • Butter a pill lightly or coat it with salad oil to help it go down easily. Or bury it in a spoonful of applesauce.
  • Let an older child hold a marshmallow to eat after the medicine is taken.
  • Place a pill in a teaspoonful of ice cream or whipped cream, and it will slide down.
  • Press a pill between two spoons to crush it, then mix it with applesauce and jam. Serve it by spoon with a “chaser” of water or juice.
  • “Give” the pill to your child’s tongue, and have them take two gulps of water or juice in quick succession from a narrow neck bottle. The pill should go down with the second gulp.
  • Ask your pharmacist for an empty, labeled bottle for your child’s medicine. Put you Childs daytime medicine in the bottle and give it to your daycare provider.
  • Note down the time, amount, and medicine given if you have more than one medication to administer to you child, or if you have more than one child taking more than one medicine. Keep the dosage sheet posted on the refrigerator. Memory can fail anyone-and often does.
  • Hang a card on the refrigerator that shows the doses and days. Cross off each date as you go along to ensure that you give the proper number of doses.
  • Let your doctor know if your child has not improved within forty-eight hours of taking medicine.

Diarrhea

As with with constipation mild diarrhea is often treated with dietary changes. Binding food such as bananas, rice, applesauce, and pasta often help. However, diarrhea can be use by a number of serious illnesses or allergies. If your child has loose, watery stools for more than a day, call your doctor. Parents need to be sure about – threat of dehydration is very serious. If your child is listless and lethargic and unable to retain fluids, than may be dehydrated. Other symptoms include low urine output, dry mouth, few tears during crying, sunken eyes, and dry skin. Test for dehydration by pinching a sunk eyes, and dry skin the back of your child may be dehydrated.

  • Encourage an infant with diarrhoea to continue breastfeeding, or offer rehydration fluids such as Pedialyte. Avoid sports drinks and sugary beverages.
  • If your child is in a hard time accepting liquids, try giving them in a tiny glass such as a shot glass.
  • Serve liquids in a fancy adult glass to make drinking more appealing , but avoid lead crystal.
  • Try weird – shaped straws to make drinking more interesting.
  • Give jell- o water. This homemade binder is made by dissolving a three- ounce package of jell-o in a cup of cold tap water.
  • Try water in which rice has been cooked ; it’s a binder, too .
  • Don’t give a commercial binding product to a child under age five or six without consulting your doctor.

Coughs and sore throats

  • Make a cough medicine by mixing lemon juice and honey in equal parts. ( Don’t give honey to babies under one year of age, it may contain botulism spores that can cause infant botulism ).
  • Use a pillow or folded blanket to elevate the head of the mattress to make breathing easier for a child with croup, congestion, or a bad cough. Or place a few books under the bed legs near child’s head.
  • Teach your child to gargle by doing it yourself while singing a song, let your child join in.

Cold and Flu

  • Wash hands frequently to prevent and combat illnesses during the cold-and-flu season.
  • Help prevent colds during the cold-and-flu season by putting all the toothbrushes in the dishwasher every few days.
  • Use an old, soft washcloth or a soft handkerchief to wipe a tender nose. Or use tissues with lotion.
  • Hang a wet towel or sheet near a heat source to increase the humidity in a room and make laboured breathing easier.
  • Coat a sore nose with non-mentholated lip balm or petroleum jelly. Or put a little petroleum jelly on a tissue before wiping your child’s nose.
  • Use an electric coffee maker (with the lid removed) as a steamer or vaporizer if a regular one isn’t available. Make sure to place it whether it can’t be tipped over.
  • Put a feverish child in a lukewarm. tub and let him blow bubbles. When the child gets bored, give him a popsicle. It’s fun, there’s no mess, and the fever comes down.
  • Help relive your child’s congestion by running very hot water in the shower. Sit with your child in the bathroom with the door closed. (Some people recommend cold water shower “steam” for croup.)
  • Teach your children how to blow their nose by having them cost their mouth and pretend to blow out a candle with their nose.

Sickroom Logistics

  • Cover the top blanket on your child’s bed with a sheet that can be changed if food or liquid spelled on it.
  • Pin a paper bag to the side of the mattress for soiled tissues and other scraps.
  • Severe tray meals with a damp washcloth or paper towel under the dishes to prevent them from slipping. The towel can be used to clean the patients hands after eating.
  • Avoid having to run from room to room by keeping medications and other sickroom supplies in a container such as a shoebox, basket, or bread pan
  • Use a lazy Susan for easy access to bedside supplies
  • Anchor a shoe bag between the bed mattress and frame. The pockets (hanging down over the edge) will hold tissue and other small necessities.
  • Use a parent’s old t-shirt as a sick gown for child with chicken pox, poison-ivy, or some other skin problem requiring lotion won’t stain bedding or furniture.
  • Let a sick child lie on an adjustable chaise lounge from your outdoor furniture set. It allows for a variety of positions requiring lotion. The shirt won’t bind, and the location won’t stain bedding or furniture.

Chicken Pox

  • Give bored kids with chicken pox some paintbrushes and calamine lotion, and let them busy in scratching. It will take them a while to do. Calamine lotion covers quickly and dries fast.
  • Quell the itch of chicken pox and other nuisances by using spray starch on the spots. (Make sure it doesn’t contain sizing.)
  • Put a little backing soda or Oatmeal Bath in your Childs tub.

Casts on Arms and Legs

  • Keep a leg or arm cast dry for showering or bathing by covering it with a large plastic bag held in a place with a rubber band or waterproof tape.
  • Clean up a dirty white cast with white shoe polish.
  • Make regular jeans and pants usable over a leg cast by inserting a long in the inseam. When the cast comes off, the zipper can be removed and sewn up.
  • Sprinkle baby powder at the opening of a cast, and blow it in with a hair dryer or vacuum cleaner (with airflow reversed) to relive itching.
  • Lubricate the edges of a cast with petroleum jelly to prevent chafed skin.

Ear Infections

  • Whenever there is an ear ache, soak a cloth in warm water and foment outer area of ear with cloth.
  • Never feed child in lying down position.
  • Drop few droplets of hydrogen peroxide and wait until it comes in contact with ear infection. Do mandatory consult a doctor for this.
  • Heat the salt and put it in a thick cloth and then tie it well. Do verify that it isn’t too hot, and foment outer area of ear. Repeat this process with best possible number of times.
  • Reduce or eliminate your child’s intake of dairy products to help reduce the mucus that contributes to ear infections.
  • Elevate thread of the mattress to help drain fluid.

Cover – 19 (corona virus )

Parenting can be challenging even on a good day, but during these challenging times. It is important that you avoid this situation. Take steps to help yourself, your child and your entire family. Day to day due to mandatory requirement of updated information of COVID-19. Difficult to focus on the activities of Difficult to decide (big or small). Feeling heavy, irritable or anxious. Disturbances in eating and sleeping habits. What can you do to help yourself? Congratulations – you are taking the first step assuming that this is a challenging time of uncertainty and stress to be managed.


So, what can you do as a caregiver? The way you are feeling today. Hope and try to be positive. Take care of yourself as much as possible – with you children and other adults are also living, Share responsibilities, work or rest. Set aside time for yourself, and maintain your routine while you can. Keep your daily schedule and structure as possible. Any spiritual, religious or cultural activities. Keep those you rest One of healthy copulation skills for yourself and your family, list out. Excessive drinking, online gambling, or drugs. Avoid behavior like taking. Remember that negative mapping, may increases your stress levels and lengthen. Which Can make your situation worse in time.


So Friends, we need to take care of self on priority. If we are well and healthy then only, parents can take care of their partner, kids and other relatives. God bless my readers a healthy, wealthy and wise always. The healthy person is the best portrait of human soul.

 

Tips to prevent child from techno addiction
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Prevent child from techno addiction

Tips to prevent child from techno addiction
Tips to prevent child from techno addiction

Tips to prevent child from techno addiction

Often I have heard people say that my child is living with his mobile all day, he has no meaning to anyone. Whenever I went out of the house in the evening, passing through the streets or parks, I observed that 90 per cent of the children playing in the streets or parks regularly are 10 years old (studying in elementary) or working age. Children over ten years hanging barefoot on the shoulder in the evening or either going or coming from tuition.

After that, they are deploying home or tuition homework at home. After all, if some time remains, children watch TV, chatting on social media or playing mobile games. The question is, where is the time to go out of play and save them? Then gradually their habit becomes addiction and their parents begin to scratch.

Children are not untouched by the increasing influence of technology. They see their parents do the same, so they do the same. If the parents are techno addict, children will also become techno addict too.

What should I do if my child is addicted to technology?

In the research conducted in General of Computer Assisted Learning, few such students were studying a degree course related to health. The research assessed their digital technology usage patterns, their anxiety, loneliness, reading and motivation. Researchers state that there is a negative relationship between Internet addiction and motivation to study.

Internet has become an important part of life, but its addiction can also make your child ill. If they stay connected to the virtual world for hours, then might be a victim of Internet addiction disorder. Internet addiction affects the brain in the same way as drugs cause harm. The bad addiction of the Internet causes brain damage and harm in many other ways. Students who use digital technology more than a limit, are less interested in their studies and become restless with the test. This study is revealed in a research, which states that – such students start feeling lonely at one time.

According to them, students who are addicted to the Internet, find it difficult for them to study and become more restless when they come for the exam. Researchers also said that loneliness is also felt due to Internet addiction, which makes it more difficult to study. “These results show that students with Internet addiction do not like to study and because of which the exam results are low”. Motivate the child towards studies and treat positively about they will perform better.

About one-fourth of the students admitted that they spend more than four hours online every day and the remaining students said that they remain online for one to three hours daily. According to the study, students mainly use the Internet for social networking and for obtaining information. According to a research, the patient is always distraught in this addiction.

Not only this, problems like lack of mind in any work, not being able to focus on any work. Things like smartphones, social networking sites and pornography, gradually become the addict of the Internet. Children suffering from this disease should reduce internet usage. The simplest way to make your child get rid of these addiction are ‘ Make them reading books and listening to music. Also make them Spend time with family, friends and going out to travel, can reduce this habit gradually.

  • Allow the use of TVs, laptops, smartphones and tablets up to the deadline.
  • Put password on smartphones, tablets and laptops.
  • Do not disclose password to children, They won’t be able to open them without your permission.
  • Keep them away from gadgets at dinner.
  • Organize few religious functions as – pooja and family gathering.
  • Spend quality time with children. Try to have a healthy discussions, and generates a bonding with them.
  • Take them out for a picnic, This is a good mode of entertaining and exploring something new.
  • Encourage them for physical activity.

In the recent past, cases of Internet addiction have been growing rapidly. Although no clear definition can be given of this addiction, it is certain that if someone do not stop from usage smartphone for repetitive, unnecessary tasks. Even though knowing the consequences to the contrary, then been Addicted. The cure for this addition is not to stop using the phone itself. The right treatment is to use the phone in a balanced way.

Effects of technology addiction

Many things indicate about a victim of phone addiction. Mostly among them are – Phone addiction is not just an addiction. It can also have side effects on your physical and mental health. Due to the addiction of the phone, keep using it till late night, due to which they are unable to sleep.- Due to prolonged exposure to the phone, it is more likely to fall prey to the microbes present on its surface.- Psychiatry like depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, etc.

  • Pain in hands and wrists.
  • Dryness in eyes.
  • Weight gain.

Internet addiction is treated with medication as well as behavior therapy. It is not known to the particular. This therapy is given either with the group or alone. During this addiction one is gradually motivated to quit Internet usage. If he uses the Internet for ten hours, then he is motivated to use the Internet for the first eight hours, then six hours and then even less. Instead, other activities are attracted to the child.

When mobile phones were invented, hardly anyone would have thought that one day it can also take the form of an addiction for a large number of people. ‘Phone Addiction’ has emerged as the biggest disease of today’s era. Spending more time on online gaming, pornography and social networking sites has become a habit for most children. These are the initial symptoms.

However, gradually the person becomes addicted to it. Things become such that anger, restlessness, irritability starts due to not using the net. A person suffering from such Internet addiction disorder spends five to ten hours on the Internet. Symptoms like getting out of the house, giving less time to friends and family, eating and drinking less.

Sentiments impacts

  • Emotionally weak.
  • Loosing control on self.
  • Fleeing restless.
  • Loss of appetite.
  • Feeling relieved while alone in room.
  • Increase in sleeplessness.

Some research has found that people with these addiction also adopt many harmful things as drugs or alcohols etc. Internet addiction kills many abilities such as motivation control, planning, sensitivity to rewards. Due to the lack of such abilities, you also become weak in studies. Internet addiction has also been linked in research to loneliness, which makes it difficult for students to study. Researchers said that Internet addiction and low social interaction make a person feel lonely. Psychiatrist specialist says that the habit of sticking to the Internet for hours is causing a mental illness.

Due to the addiction of the phone, keep using it till late night, due to which they are unable to sleep.- Due to prolonged exposure to the phone, it is more likely to fall prey to the microbes present on its surface.- Psychiatry like depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, etc.

How to deal with this addiction?

If child is addicted to the phone, then parents can take some steps to get control over it at their level.- Disabling notifications. Repeated notifications will not come, so child will not pick up the phone again and again.- Uninstall apps that have no solid utility, yet child spend a lot of time on them.- Track their phone usage time. There are some apps available that tell you how much time spent on the phone and Discourage spending more time.- Always keep the phone in another room instead of keeping it with kids. If it is always within reach, then child can use it.

If child sleep by setting an alarm in the phone and keeping it near them, then it is possible that child won’t stop from using the phone till late at night. So keep the phone somewhere away from the bed and use an alarm clock for alarm.- Tell firmly that not going to look at the phone for the next hour. Then ask your child to get started in implementing it. Try to know why child addicted to the phone. There is a shortage in life in most of the user. Any Shortage, you find a solution to avoid any problem in the phone.

Identify that deficiency and try to overcome it.- Think about what other work you can give your child.  So use the time-phrase wasting on the phone. Then try to make child usage time in those tasks. Parents require to set -up some rules, and regulations for. Initially, try to implement the limitations, and method’s of discipline from the beginning. The management in behavior of child started rooted from childhood.

Are parents/guardians also increasing digital addiction in children

For children under 18 months, spending only 15-20 minutes on screen is right and acceptable in terms of health. If you are also one of those parents who give their young children a smartphone or tablet in their hands while feeding or to keep them busy, then be aware that this habit can not only make them lazy. , but could push them towards digital addition only in the early stages of his age. According to the Pediatrics, children under 18 months of age, spending only 15-20 minutes on screen is healthy and acceptable.

Experts believe that parents with busy schedules and an over-protective attitude towards the safety of young children are attaching their young children to smart screens. As parents we performs many role as croaker, sawbones, paramedics, and companions to sick children. Instead of playing with toys or playing outside, putting them on digital screen addiction at such a young age can hamper their all round development, spoil their eyesight and make them obese in childhood , Which can subsequently lead to diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol. To rectify such situation, we need to prepare a proper disciplinary tricks and manage completely organized scheduling at home,

Spending time on screen for a while and under someone’s monitor is not harmful. “Technology should not be a hindrance to the child’s normal social interaction and learning from the surrounding environment. We need to keep a close observation, so that we can verify few sickness and provide early treatment at home. We need to understand and remember. If once addicted to a smart phone or tablet, then later it causes problems with withdrawal symptoms such as irritable behavior, stubbornness, frequent solicitation and tantrums in sleeping, eating or waking up in children when they are not allowed to spend more time on the screen.

According to a psychologist, “Toys increase visual knowledge and touch knowledge in the minds of young children.” More screen time can permanently destroy young children with their cognitive abilities such as laziness and problem solving, paying attention to other people and sleeping on time. Health experts recommend that the correct age for children to spend normal time on screen is 11 years.

However, according to  survey 25 percent of children aged six years or younger have their own mobile phone and about half of them spend up to 21 hours a week on their phones. During this time, they play games on screen and watch videos. Experts advise parents to engage their children in ‘open-ended’ content on the screen, so that it helps to increase their creativity while spending time on the app and it is only reward or sharing their attention Contribute to their cognitive development rather than being used.

Experts believe that to keep children away from digital addiction, parents should create free zones of digital devices in the home, especially at the dining table and bedroom, not only for children, but also for themselves. “Children learn what they see.” In order to keep children away from this addiction, parents should also set a right example in front of them.

If a remedy does not appear to work, do not hesitate to visit a psychiatrist.

Smart discipline techniques for all age group
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Smart discipline techniques for all age group

Smart discipline techniques for all age group
Smart discipline techniques for all age group

 

Smart discipline techniques for all age group

The first school of discipline is family and the second is academic school. Without discipline, It is difficult to imagine a civilized society. Population plays a big role in the creation and operation of healthy society, which is possible due to being embedded in any form of discipline. I can surely state that without discipline neither the family can run nor the institution and the nation.

Its generality can also be gauged from the fact that the word discipline can range from the smallest unit of society to the concept of ‘world-society’. It has to be observe whether the form of discipline is the same everywhere, or it will be different at every level like family, society, nation and world.

The introduction of any nation comes from its disciplined citizens’. But there is also an army to protect the same nation. The army has its own discipline, where rules are strictly followed. Due to the question of security, there are norms of discipline, which cannot be compromised. But the simplest form of discipline is seen in society, where people live without any conflict with mutual harmony.

After all, what are the reasons, because of which the feeling of ‘peaceful co-existence’ is the backbone of any society? Society is formed by joining different communities, then the nation and the world. Even though there is diversity in every field, ‘world-human’ and ‘world-society’ are envisaged, which is rooted in discipline. Discipline limits are also determined according to the region.

How to discipline a toddler and child who doesn’t listen

Parents need to implement some rules, for better patronizing. Initially, set the limit of discipline from the beginning. Tell him that not everything will be accepted. If you refuse something, then definitely give him the reason for it. It will save from arising negative thoughts. If the child cries for something, then let him cry and asked if crying while demanding than nothing full-filled, otherwise kids pretend as – child crying is parent’s weakness.

He will understand that the parents cannot see me crying and he will do the same to celebrate everything from now on. Don’t fulfill every demand of the child. Many times, children start crying and stubbornly in front of other people or guests in the house to emotionally blackmail the parents. In fact, they feel that the parents will fulfill their stubbornness in order to save their honor. Parents also do this, if you are doing this too, stop it immediately.

Do not surrender to the child. Learn not to say it. Most of the time parents tell the children what they did wrong, but instead they should tell them how they could have done it right. Giving children options to correct situations develops their thinking and understanding.

The habit of speaking the truth should be instilled your child, for this the parents themselves will have to follow this path. They have to make a habit of honesty, they will have to tell that they can move forward only on the path of truth and honesty, because the foundation of honesty is very strong. No one can further corrupt your child. For this, you can explain it through a story or through a quotes.

Ways to discipline a child without hitting

Whereas the aim of education is to provide better citizens to the society, who become partners in building a healthy society. The goal of discipline is to support ethics in education, even though the first school of discipline is family, but its schools play a decisive role in building a healthy society. In such a situation, the question becomes more important – what should be the form of discipline in our schools. With this, while the students develop qualities like modesty, self-control, humility and wisdom, the possibility of being born of rebellion remains as well.

Most people seek the meaning of discipline in a military complex, its rigid rules and its observance. Can the rules of a military complex and strict adherence help unintelligent or intelligent students learn anything? Most teachers are ignorant of the true meaning of discipline in school. They can be heard saying how children will read without fear! And what happens with playing?

Most of the students are interested in sports and there are many such occasions when the student as a player himself follows the rules. He subsequently continues as a citizen of the society. In fact, sports are the most appropriate means of achieving ‘self-motivated discipline’. Unless a person is bound by discipline and obedience on his own, it is futile to expect him to do the same to another.

As we know about – now the concept of ‘continuous and comprehensive assessment’ has been incorporated under the expected change in the education system, the entire evaluator of the student will be his teacher.

In such a situation, the responsibility of teachers is further increased that they take seriously the behavior of students (from other students and teachers) and the mines (columns) with community activities. Then might be possibilities to transmit human values ​​beyond the textbooks to the students in the true sense.

Easy and advanced ways for parents to discipline their child

In accordance to the current situation of society, culture, education system, livelihood etc. are most involved in humans life. Parents need to be more alert, updated as well as need to tackle smartly while educating their children in all aspects. The role of parents is very important in developing good values ​​in children. If parents will be cultured, then only children will become cultured.

In today’s environment, it is tough for parents to give good values to children. No matter how much parents explain, children do what their mind says, but if you understands your child and guide accordingly from the beginning, then your child will definitely listen to you. The behavior of children is rooted in childhood. The ‘no’ of the child depends on the method of parenting, that is how the parents say/talk/speak to their child.

According to a recent child development research, “Children aged 4-5 years do not speak 20-25 times in one day. Many times children also say ‘no’ due to tiredness. Generally speaking children with Rude Behavior speak ‘Na’ for everything. The important thing is that when a child does not speak for everything in childhood. Since, such behavior is an indication of his rebellion in the future.

So, to make correction in Smart discipline techniques for all age group seems mandatory. Children’s brain is the blank slate on which we can write whatever we want. This process continues for four to six years from birth. Parents should take special precautions at this age. If you want to make them cultured, then you should not miss your duty.

Children cannot be taught by teaching rituals (sanskars). Children learn what they see their parents do. Parents have to adopt in their own behavior those things which are in the interest of children. Children will learn as you would. They will do what you do. They will think that we should do more than our parents.

How do you implement positive discipline ?

As mentioned above about Teaching Discipline, an effective way to divert a child’s attention from a wrongdoing is to ignore it rather than to value it. This method becomes more important when the child is doing that inappropriate thing to draw attention to you. By adopting this style it is possible that you feel that you have not really done anything to improve the situation.

But you will later come to know how influential this style was and thus the child himself did not show any interest in repeating that work. As a result, you can get surprising results and avoid excessive interference in the child’s independence. When the children want to attract your attention, sometimes they start acting strangely.

The child knows well at what time and what work he or she can hurt. For example, at the time when guests are entering the house, they will do something that will make you angry, or right when you are talking on the telephone. But if you have acted patiently and ignored this action, then the child will not insist on repeating it.

Because his goal was to get your attention, in which he did not succeed. At the same time, the child should be appreciated for doing positive things and following discipline. In this way, that need, ie the need to draw attention to yourself, can be fulfilled meaningfully.

Along with the above mention tricks, few more to note and implement —

  • Keep your voice soft while talking to them.
  • During positive talks, children will get answers to their questions and they will also be in discipline.
  • Give them the option according to opportunity.
  • Then give them the right to choose the option. This will develop their ability to make decisions.
  • Make sure to give opportunity to the children who have defiant behavior. This will develop their ability to control situations.

For good future of children, give them good education as well as good values. When children are small, they are like raw soil. You can mold them as you want. If parents are not happy with your wrong actions, they will not do them. And if parents encourage their good work then they will be excited to do more good work. Encourage good work of children and do not encourage bad work. Your children will definitely grow up to become a good and cultured person.

Playful learning environment
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Use Playful Learning Environment in 2020

Playful learning environment
Playful learning environment

Importance of Playful learning environment

In the growing age, friends are the only ones for children and they often share unbiased knowledge of physical-mental changes. At such times, parents can tell to children what is wrong, what is right. Nothing can quite replace visits for getting to know one’s relatives if your family enjoys big get-together on holidays or family reunions, your children are especially lucky. Imaginative use of the telephone , mail , computer [for e- mail] , video camera [ digital or other] , VCR and audiotape recorder can provide good substitutes for visits and gatherings.

Sports are the basis of development of human life and the vital element and fundamental right of child life. Through sports, boys and girls give good direction to their natural tendencies and the management of their emotions. It is a well-known fact that the importance of sports as a pedagogical approach in human life from many perspectives. While generating a playful learning activities is also the initial key features of best and successful parenting. Qualities such as human values, emotional development, patience, discipline, friendship, cooperation, honesty, competition and leadership behavior, more than preaching, are instinctively learned through sports.

That is why academics have been strong advocates of educating children and girls through sports, why not because the children in nature, along with giving direction to the creation of sports-learning environment, children – Please replace it in girls. Therefore, in terms of acquisition of sports, there are double benefit approaches in terms of self-development. For this ideology, thinkers have strongly believed that sports are the basis of safety, growth and development, joy, elation, creativity and natural development of life values ​​in child life.

When a child comes home from school, than anyone elder as well mature person should be at home , During the growing towards teenagers it is important to share things and required revert or treat accordingly as, to encourage good work and not to oppose the wrong thing, nor do be rude and should not be harsher. Explain about what they should not do in their faith. Parents need to build-up strong bonding with kids. One need to be soft by language and should sound as caring as well as friendly while taking to kids.

Effects of playful learning environment

The encouragement to play and research helps children to learn, and motivate to study, develop social, emotional, physical and mind. Children play for pleasure, but playing is also the key to their learning and development. Play helps to shape-up children’s knowledge, experience and develop their eagerness and confidence. Children learn by trying things out, comparing results, asking questions and facing challenges. Play develops language-learning, thinking, planning, organizing, and decision-making skills.

Teaching and learning is a process that involves many factors. In the manner in which the learner incorporates new knowledge, ethics and skills while moving towards his / her goals to expand his / her learning experiences, all these factors keep coming up in a state of communication. A variety of perspectives on teaching have emerged during the last century. One of these is cognitive learning, which sees learning as a function of the brain.

The second is, constructive teaching which sees knowledge as the work done in the learning process. Rather than looking at these theories separately, they should be seen as a series of possibilities that can be embedded in learning experiences. While using a well-discipline methods and techniques, In this process of integration, it is necessary to take other factors into consideration – cognitive style, style of learning, multiple forms of our intelligence and teaching that can be used by those who need it and who are from different cultural backgrounds.

Creativity is a learning strategy in which the students’ prior knowledge, beliefs and skills are used. Through creative strategy, the student develops a new kind of understanding based on his prior knowledge and information. A teacher working on this style raises questions and observes students’ process of finding answers, directing them and initiating new ways of thinking.

The creative-style teacher, working with raw data, primary sources, and interactive material, asks students to work on their data collected and to direct their own quest. Gradually, the student begins to understand that learning is actually a cognitive process. This type of style is effective for students of all ages, it also works on adults. The real thing is that when the child starts speaking, he does not speak letters.

He speaks meaningful words and sentences. Keeping this in mind, the foundation of the class library was laid. In addition to the text book, various books and magazines and newspapers were made available. Children were given books of interest to them in the classroom itself. Such an atmosphere was created that teachers should talk a lot with the children who are admitted in school, listen to their experiences and stories and tell them, listen to their mind.

Impacts of playful learning environment

Psychological discoveries have proved that children who participate in sports are more stable and valuable from an emotional standpoint and are not discouraged quickly. Sports are a very good means of using closed energy. Sports, which emphasize self-governance rather than rigid discipline, keep suppression beyond mitigation leading to a steady increase in the level of values.

The field of sports is an area in which the participating students participate without any external pressure and all discrimination (In which, forgetting the color, distinction, region, distinction etc.), develop values ​​like friendship, goodwill and cooperation which are beneficial for the nation. It is natural to generate tension and pressure in the competition.

The player also keeps himself balanced in this situation, which leads to the development of emotion and psychological ground which leads to the generation of such a game feeling. If it does not, then it means that the game lacks emotion and in its due to absence of the child. Human health is the first requirement for the body. Sports have an important and special contribution in maintaining health. If anybody keeps playing regularly, his body will remain strong, powerful, beautiful and healthy.

If children do not play, their life will become dull. While child rearing, parents also require to explain and prepare girls for periods as Different types of sports in life play an active role in the physical development of female child. Because activity is as important for development as rest and food. Through playing, the child expresses the frustrations and disappointments that have arisen in his life, resulting in the transformation of his mental conflicts and distortions that continue to occur in his heart and thus the development of additional vitality with joy in his life are also possible.

That is why few studies states the relation to the game is that – “Through the game the child can check his abilities. Playgrounds are open chambers. “Also clarifies the importance of the game. On the basis of many researches, it has now been proved indisputable that sports have physical, mental and social importance. Whose brief separate discussion is given in the educational as importance of the problem.

Task generation and implementation of playful learning environment

Give grandparents a photo album containing a new grandchild’s photos and other memorabilia [ such as first drawing ]. Ask grandparents to write in the album about in the memories of the child will have his own special book to look at over the year.

If the child is handicapped, the need for stimulation and play increases especially. Equal opportunities are needed for girls and boys to play and to interact with all family members. Playing games with all ages family members is helpful for developing relationship and strengthen the same. Use Playful learning environment in 2020. It is also a great mode of connecting which generates a circle of socialism.

Sports spirit has a meaningful and important place in anyone’s life. This reflects a person’s level of thinking, manner of behavior and general nature. It has an impact on the personality and characteristics of the person like honesty, tolerance, kindness, friendship, cooperation and discipline etc. This sporting spirit is not limited only to the field of sports, but it is related to all areas of a person’s life. A good player develops good vibrancy, feeling, guiding and adhering to ethics.

The spirit with which he plays the game adopts the same spirit in all walks of life. A good player achieves a high level of success in his life, he adjusts himself and adjusts to the society and domestic environment, he is emotionally stable, has a high level of complacency, confidence and pragmatism. . He is disciplined, obedient, aware and truthful, faces many challenges with ease, whether he leads to victory or defeat. He not only provides leadership in the playground but also provides successful leadership in social and economic fields.

 

Verify regarding the children’s bulling victim 2020
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Verify regarding the children’s bulling victim 2020

Verify regarding the children’s bulling victim 2020
Verify regarding the children’s bulling victim 2020

Verify regarding the children’s bulling victim 2020

The world of crime is also going through regular changes. New crimes are involved in the list of crimes. Cyber ​​bullying is also one of these. How to protect your child from this crime. Have you ever experienced cyber bullying? Are you sure that your child is safe from Cyber ​​negative impacts ? You say yes, but some figures will surprise you. According to a survey conducted on children, in the case of online harassment, India is third in the world.

About 66 percent of the Internet users in India have faced cyber-bullying in some way. Not only that, about 53 percent of adolescents believed that they got real life from their online contact. Obviously this was done without the knowledge of the parents without meeting it.

Most important is to verify regarding the children’s bulling victim 2020. We all are aware about society and behavior pattern. According to a recent study, ‘1 out of 3 children is associated with bulling, whether it is a boiler or a bully supporter. If the child is afraid, nervous or scary while talking to the parents, it means that he is being bullied and he is hiding this from the parents. Studies have also proven that 67% of bullying occurs when there are no parents with children.

When children experience emotional invalidation, that creates an impression in their mind as that certain barriers to sharing are created, emotions are not acceptable to express, along with the sense that bonding is conditional. Parents play the role of a safe haven in this – by helping to name those emotions and noticing how their child is feeling, and also providing a message as – all emotions are natural and serve a purpose. This is where the real intuition and reconciliation between the two begin.

In any place, anywhere, between school, home or friends, children can become victims of bullying and there is no one else but the children. Parents make every effort to protect their child from being bullied. But what happens when your own child bullies others? Exploiting or bullying children get mental and behavioral signals, which can be identified and removed from this problem.

As per the normal discussion between parents, mainly concerns are about that children are bullied in school, but why do we forget that a child are also bullied or harassed by other children. What if your child bullies others.

Verify the source, place and mode of bully

Be friendly with the children, ask about their entire routine, friends-teachers.

  • Parents won’t to be so busy, they should definitely attend the children’s parent-teachers’ meeting in which they can meet their teachers and friends.
  • Parents are role models for children. Therefore, give examples of leadership, generosity and friendly people in front of them.
  • If you see some changes in your child’s behavior, immediately contact the teacher.
  • Tell the children aged 12-13 years about cyber bulling.
  • If the problem is more serious, consult the child psychologist.
  • In addition to the school, family gatherings and local communities give children the opportunity to meet their friends, this will create a sense of socialization in a safe environment.

Trace if child is bulling other children

Not able to sleep comfortably —  A study conducted by the University, which has found that children who have difficulty sleeping are more prone to bullying. While children who are able to sleep peacefully, nothing of this sort is seen. If your child is not able to sleep properly at night, talk to him and what is going on in his mind? Try to know this.

Justify wrong treatment with others. — Often, the children stop talking to each other when they quarrel, but their quarrel does not last long and they become friends. But if your child is being very aggressive towards another child and is also justifying his wrong behavior then you should be alert. According to experts, children who do this behavior bully. Instead of shouting at such children one should talk with love. Ask him what is the reason that he is trying to justify his mistake too. Teach him to be sympathetic and explain how his misbehavior is affecting others.

Keep an eye on online history. — Parents need to be aware of what the child sees and does online. With this help you can know what is going on in the mind of the child. Find out if your child is harassing other children online by creating a social media profile. If this is the case, make strict rules for the screen time. Keep an eye on your child’s online history as to what he does and what is going on in his mind. If you see anything wrong in this, then start counseling the child at your level.

Reaction to the sex affiance queries
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Reaction to the sex related Queries

Reaction to the sex affiance queries
Reaction to the sex affiance queries

Reaction to the sex affiance queries

Usually, children ask unsuspecting question and parents don’t understands about – how to revert and give reaction to the sex related queries answer their question. Mostly parents scold him/her or make them quiet. The confusion and curiosity of the children increases even when there is not a satisfying revert.

Even today, people in our country do not talk openly about sex information to their children. As in according to the present tenure and society, building a relationship between parent and child is required on priority. Today is the time of technology, due to which it is not possible for smart gadgets to stay away from the hands of children for long.

Children rush to the internet world and calm their curiosities. In such a situation, children do not get the right information about sex and they start seeing sex differently. Therefore, it should be tried that children should be given sex education at the right time and correct information. For this you should also take care of right methods for children.

Need and importance of sexual anatomy

Generally, well educated people are still stunned by talking or discussing an important topic, which is mostly considered confidential, so giving coupling education to children is far away and our reluctance on our children’s future.

Have we ever thought about the effect it may have ? Isn’t not true that it is still easy for children to answer these questions today, but tomorrow it will be very difficult to solve their problems ? Often parents do not consider it necessary to give children any information about coupling.

By thinking that they too had not told anything about it by their parents. So did it affect their life? Then today the era has become so advanced that even before age children know everything. Then what is the need to explain something separately? But often this thinking of ours, proves to be harmful for children.

Whether or not to educate to our children, they get many such incomplete and provocative related information from pornographic magazines, TV, movies, internet, even toilet walls, which mislead them. Enough for child fickle mind starts to fret over various types of experiments about without seeing the immaturity of the body and in many cases they achieve it, and the result ahead ?

Many physical-mental illnesses, self-aggrandizement, remorse and studies, career losses are different. But our irony is that despite living in the jet age of 21st century, we are still not able to decide whether or not to give educate children and when and how ? Whereas now the time has come that beyond such education or not, we should think about how and at what age to educate to children. Mainly Sexologist are pointing the criteria and right way to give proper education to children.

Understand child phycology

Starting from initial stage, children’s are also with common mentality and line of thought like us and mainly human’s have feeling, and few survey as well as research say’s that few feelings are present in the child from birth and they are also eager to know all about the parts in humans body, which is absolutely normal.

Most of the parents do not pay attention to this and also do not give proper guidance to their children. Many times it also happens that we start arousing curiosity in our child’s delicate mind right from childhood. When the child is born, they does not know anything about the world, even about their own body.

In such a situation, whenever a child hands towards private parts like other organs or comes undressed in front of others, parents immediately reprimand them. At that time, the innocence does not realize their mistake, but in the opposite mind, curiosity starts to wake up, why is it forbidden to touch this part of my body.

So to avoid scolding of parents, child starts touching their private parts privately and the parents do not even aware about. Therefore, parents should not scold children with their normal actions, their behavior may also change over time. When talking to children on sensitive issues like sex, take special care of their age and understanding.

According to the age and understanding of the child, give him information related to sex. It is not necessary that you give complete information about sex to the child, but you can tell them all things by making them aware.

Human body parts explanation at different age slabs

Physical and mental changes occur when children grow up. It is often seen that children do not understand these changes and remain in a dilemma. Therefore, children should talk about these changes and parents should explain them. Awareness should be given about the meaning of these physical and mental changes.

Due to the lack of information related to sexology , children resort to porn videos. If you are aware of this then do not get angry with the child and explain it in a calm manner. Give him sex related information and tell him that the way to get information from internet is wrong. What to guide further in different ages ?

At around age of 3-4 years, explain them as the way all the brushes, towels etc. are completely private and individual also should not be used by anyone else, In the same way few part of your body is also completely private. Which you should not uncover in front of others.

Also, tell that if anyone touches or rub limbs, they should arise objections tell parents/guardians immediately. By doing this, we will be able to inform the children about privacy of their private parts as well as protect them from child sexual abuse. During the age slab changes – mother can ask about that child should not even show private parts to them, so now you have to take bath yourself.

In this way they will be able to know that their private parts are absolutely private, which no one has the right to see or touch. While teaching about body parts we need to explain regarding safe-unsafe touch. Small children do not understand much about safe-unsafe touch, but it depends on the way parents explain them. Still, explain to children about the good touch and bad touch.

Explain them in a simple way instead of answering their technical queries. Always keep in mind the age of children. While giving basic education to children, Parents need to provide accurate and complete information about fornicate to children above 14 years of age.

When kids ask questions related to copulation, parents scold them, instead of being angry, respond lovingly. Parents shouldn’t ignore their questions and may not try to scold them. Keep friendly behavior while answering such queries, do try not deal with settlement.

Give time and build supportive bonding

It is often seen that children run towards the Internet world or talk to their friends about sex due to lack of support from parents. From where he takes half-incomplete information related to sex. It is not right for them. Therefore parents should give time to their children.

Parents need to do communication also try for healthy discussion with friendly behavior and positive reactions. It is not that the curiosity of children will be calmed by knowing the names of the organs. Their questions also change according to the changes in the body with aging.

Therefore, the phase of their questions and your solutions should be like an ongoing process. Explain with examples for better understanding because as your child grows up, he wants to know why his organs are different from those of opposite sex.” Generally, children above five years of age have a desire to know this. So at this age, tell them the difference between boy and girl with ordinary comparisons.

Friendly relationship with teenagers is important

When children turn 12-13, apart from parents, many people start making space in their world. You tell them or not, they start to know about the changes in their body. We feel comfortable asking our friends about their problems. While talking about teenagers, “Have a friendly relationship with them.

Adolescent children should be given information about homosexuality, masturbation, periods etc. Don’t forget to tell them about safe sex and diseases like AIDS too. Often, after the age of ten, children become very sensitive about changes and looks in their body. Many children try to learn about these changes directly or indirectly from their parents.

On the other hand, there are also cases where children hesitate to talk about it. In such a situation, parents should take initiative on their behalf. It is very important to tell children about the hormonal changes in their body.” Especially mothers should tell their daughters about periods before the age of 12. Many mothers talk about periods in code word. They present it as shame or curse.

They have to change their perspective. Tell the girls that this is a natural function of the female body. With such a learning, the girl will never feel embarrassed or guilty about it. Not only this, I believe that boys should also know about this. In the early teens, boys also feel the excitement in their private parts.

Exciting dreams or excitement in genitals is not an unnatural thing. If they ask you about this, then solve their questions. A good way can also be to inform them about this before they ask. As per the current society and behavioral the role of sex education in schools becomes important. It is good that parents give sex education to their children at home, but in India, such parents are very few.”

In such a situation, making sex education mandatory in schools seems very important. It should be included in the eighth or ninth grade syllabus, as by this age (14–15 years), children have developed sufficient understanding.

 

Contend or dealing with temper tantrums in children
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Dealing With Temper Tantrums in children

Contend or dealing with temper tantrums in children
Contend or dealing with temper tantrums in children

Contend or dealing with temper tantrums in children

Tantrums is a kind of anger outburst, it is a type of emotion that resides in one’s inner self. This is a kind of negative emotion that involves a lot of guilt, anger, jealousy etc. Due to anger, the particular’s positive thinking almost ends. Anger has been linked to liver in mediacies. Whoever have liver disease, become agitated and irritable, but in today’s changing environment, the effect of this negative feeling is beginning to be more visible.

An angriness loses the power to understand rightly. Many times, angriness and agitation responding react to do wrong things, and bad circumstances may raised, which has no way to repent. Most parents believe/follow that whenever possible the best is to ignorance of the tantrums.

While dealing With Temper Tantrums, parents need to concern about few measures as – When there’s nobody to observe – no need to perform many caution, though, that it’s important not to ignore the child, they ask themselves if they’re enforcing too-riding standards, holding too- high expectations, or not giving enough values, try not avoid the tantrum point preventing your child from becoming over tired or frustrated.

In the public place, if your child suddenly starts crying and shouting, if you do not listen, any parent gets angry, but these tantrums of young children should be dealt with love.

Temper tantrum causes

The reason for tantrums of children depends on their mental and emotional state, just like adults. The biggest problem with children is that they themselves do not understand the reason behind their tantrums. Because of which they are neither able to talk to you nor can they correct it.

On the other hand, it is normal for children to show tantrums, during mental and emotional changes occur. However, it becomes a matter of concern when the tantrums of children increase or they start showing tantrums in everything. The reason for children’s tantrums are their hyper active, moody, inability to keep pace with new environment, physical problem, mental problem or their intensity.

Usually if the child is hungry, too tired, sick or feeling unconfirmed for some reason then he cries, shouts, raises his hand to kill, bites his teeth, or head bagging on the ground. He then tries to hold his breath and does not listen to anyone. Such behavior of a child can be annoying and frustrating for any parent.

Especially when children behave like this in public place. If you are raising a child, then you will be well aware of children’s tantrums. Actually, raising children is not only a responsibility, but it also requires a lot of patience. Many times your child is stubborn, does not listen to you, gets angry, becomes irritable or starts crying.

All these actions show tantrums of children. In such a situation, you may get worried or angry that how to deal with this situation? When children show tantrums, there are scenario’s like parents shouting at them or slapping them, which should not happen. This article, is fully embedded with types for tantrums of children and how to deal with them.

How to deal with temper tantrums ?

Let your child scream to his heart’s content sometimes ( outdoor ) Everybody needs to let off steam occasionally. Ask your child to be in his room and stay there until the lost “happy Face” is found. Try to distract your child by doing or saying something unusual or silly.

You might even stage your own mock tantrums and ask your child if you’re doing it right, or switch lights on/off rapidly – as attention distracted. Some parents say ( if you can do this without anger or hostility ) to slowly pour a glass of water over a child’s head for real drama! ( recommended only in the kitchen or bathroom). Tell your child firmly that the rule still stands (if discipline precipitated the tantrum), then ignore the tantrum.

Disappear! If you’re in another room, you’ll feel better, and the tantrum will probably be short-lived. If your child follows you, move again. Pick up your child and gently shake the ”mads” in a fun way. Stop breath-holding by gently blowing into your child’s face, dashing a small amount of water on his face, or applying a cold washcloth. Don’t panic if your child starts to become cyanotic (turns blue or purple due to lack of oxygen in the blood).

Fainting automatically stops breath-holding. Ask your child to go to his room and stay there until the lost ”happy face” is found. Disappear if you’re in another room, you’ll feel better, and the tantrum will probably be short-lived. If your child follows you, move again. When you’re away from home, escort your child calmly to the car or a restroom if a tantrum occurs. When the tantrum sub-sides, return to the business at hand if you can’t leave, simply let the tantrum continue, and grit your teeth.

How to stop severe temper tantrums

  • Hold your small child tightly while rocking and singing. Express your love in terms of increasing size. For example, “My love for you is as big as a flower…as big as a teacup….as big as a bush…” Try to get your child involved in thinking up bigger things.
  • Whisper in your child’s ear. If you can think of something really good to whisper, your child’s moods may change altogether
  • Tell your child there’s a smile inside, and if it’s not led out, it will turn into a giggle. (It often will.) Mimic your child exaggeratedly and say, “No laughing!” (Don’t forget to talk about the problem when the giggling is over.)
  • Scold a piece of furniture or a toy that “causes” the trouble. You child will probably end up laughing.
  • Lend your child a hug and kiss when things are going well; call in the loan when anger strikes. This gives your child a chance to express warmth and calm down so you can talk about the problem.
  • Help your child calm down after a crying spree by taking deep breaths together. Pretend your child’s toes are candles that have to be blown out using deep breath.

Temper tantrum management

Set a timer, and tell your child that the behavior must stop when the bell rings. Else, tell your child you are going to count to ten, then start counting out loud, Be prepared to enforce the consequences (like leaving the store) When you’re finished counting. Empty treats don’t work.

Choose a time out location where your child remain there for a designated period of a time . [ many parents choose one minute for each year of age. ] this not only ends the behavior, it gives your child a chance to clam down and stop the momentum that may have gotten out of control.

Be prepared to redirect your Child’s attention to a positive activity when the time out ends. Call out a funny magic phrase such as “un- gah- wah ” which is your family’s secret signal to stop whatever activity is going on. Use it in monodisciplinary situations. Occasionally, such as during a game, and be prepared to have used on you. praise your child for good self- control and good sense when the misbehavior stops.

How to deal with a screaming toddler/children

Excessive tantrums (if a child tantrums more than five times a day and these tantrums last more than ten minutes on average) may indicate an underlying psychological problem. In such cases, it is important to first see if there is physical distress or illness and then try to seek professional psychological help. If left as such, these issues may later manifest as external problems (eg aggression) or internal problems (eg depression and anxiety).

It is mandate to note that the behavior of boys usually consists of external problems or internal problems or both. In the girls’ behavior, on the other hand, no symptoms of external problems have been observed – either internal problems (sadness, anxiety, depression) or both problems are mixed.

Children, like adults, shouldn’t be required to hold anger in all the time. You may want to talk with your child about anger, including the words used to express it, and show your understanding. Encourage your child to vent anger physically by running around outdoors, by punching a big batch of play dough, or by hitting a tree with a stick.

Teach your child to count to five in a loud, angry voice, to play an angry song on a musical instrument, or to dance an angry, Or shout something loudly with your child, and let your voices drop gradually until there’s silence. Have your child draw a picture of these angry feelings. Help your child deal with anger deal as by creating a Rage Rock. Pick out a rock together, paint it, then have your child squeeze it when angry. Keep it in a convenient location.

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Key features of best and successful parenting
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Key features of best and successful parenting

Key features of best and successful parenting
Key features of best and successful parenting

Key features of best and successful parenting

As we all are aware about the initial increase in responsibilities arise when a couple becomes a parent. The responsibility of child rearing falls on the shoulder and since creation, there has been no parent who hasn’t taken proper care of their children. This quality automatically comes in the parents.

The status of mother and father is really more than god. Love is its mainstay, which helps children in their development. The couples never had any child nutrition training before having a child, but as they become parents ( have children), especially the mother, automatically owns quality, how to keep the children, how much milk to give, that unborn baby’s Mother understands all the requirement, in her silent language she finds meaning.

Where did this quality come from, only love and attachment make able to raise child under any circumstances. Without any training towards the one we love, we carry out our full responsibility successfully.

Touch Therapies

Time and situation as well as circumstances also teaches a lot. A research and studies state that you can only nurture children, can’t give them ideas because of vary from generation to generation. Usually, when the child comes to the house, it is necessarily required to treat and tackle with love rather than planning for future carrier designation.

If the child is properly cared for and given plenty of opportunity to understand the life-phrases and the world, then he will definitely become an important personality. We try to fill it with our religious thoughts, morality and all such ideas, which we consider useful for ourselves and our society. With this, the child is not able to develop naturally and a grade is determined.

His tendency to fly in the open sky that was naturally born to him will perish. Touch therapies in childhood plays an important role, if the child is with a relative, then at least 2 times a day, let your child move. If you can meet in the afternoon, then definitely meet. Generating a touch and attachment with your child is initial key features of best and successful parenting.

Keep an eye on children

There are some software that can be used for to keep an eye on children. It is very important to know what they are browsing. You should know the password of their email, periodically check the history. If the child is on other social platforms as Facebook, tweeter, Instagram, WhatsApp etc.

Then join them on these platform to track and confirm about few other activities as who are in their friend list, what they are following, who are following them, chat groups they are involved in, post or quotes they sharing etc. These easy access platforms help to understand their mind thoughts and level of grasping sense as well as evaluating status.

By using this trick, parents can easily grab the root of children and able to do corrections (if required) and also rectify the mistakes timely.

Share good experiences

Parents should share the good experiences of their life with the children so that the children will be motivated to learn something. Besides, parents can also ask about their special experience with school and friends from their beloved kids. By this parents may get information about what is going on in your kid’s mind and what kind of friends they have.

Attention deficit hyper activity disorder

ADHD is a brain disease in which the child starts lying not only on big things but also on small things. This habit increases with time. However, many children struggling with this disease also have a habit of telling the truth. If the parents repeatedly ask the children suffering from this disease why they lied, they still do not speak the truth. About 1 crore children in India suffer from ADHD.

There are many reasons for this in children suffering from ADHD

  • Not being able to differentiate between present and future.
  • Thinking more, or remembering and fearing the consequences of anything.
  • Thinking of controlling the situation after a lie.
  • Many of these children do not think at the ground level.

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