Tackle siblings enimity and jealousy

Tackle siblings enimity and jealousy

The only way to sibling rivalry is to have only one child a certain amount of jealousy and squabbling is normal between siblings. It,s impossible to make it child stop feeling emotions like jealousy and the need to win. Knowing that there are times when you dislike someone your love is realistic and a healthy. It’s usually best to let children work things out themselves since most fighting is done to proud parents into doing some thing of course, there are times when you must interfere for safety’s sake or when you just can’t stand any more fighting.

Changing the pace

  • Suggest a new activity when your kids are squabbling a lot boredom often leads to quarrels.
  • Try distractions when you see that an older child is getting frustrated with a young one. Say, “Quick, l need you! Please come help me. “
  • Spray glass cleaner on the inside and outside of a stumbling glass door or a ground level window. Place your fighting children on opposite sides, and give each one a dry cloth. By the time the glass is dry, the kids will be laughing.
  • End a verbal argument by having your kids sing their complaints to each other.
  • Ask your kids ideas to solve the problem. Let them think of special ways they can accommodate each other. Even if their ideas don’t ultimately work, your kids will be trying to resolve their differences.
  • Get out the camera and take a pretend (or actual) photo of your kids “fighting,” to diffuse the situation. Then take picture of them hugging. Let them mug for another photo, if they want to.
  • Get up and leave the house, if you can, or at least consider the bathroom as a refuge. Like temper tantrums, fighting often stops when there’s no audience.
  • Send each quarreling child to a different corner of the room, and have them sit facing each other. Tell them they must speak calmly and stay put until they give each other permission to leave. Negotiations usually lead to peace.
  • Have quarreling children mention five nice qualities about each other. Mutual compliments often end the war.
  • Remove the object of disagreement, or separate your children. Not being allowed to play together (or with the dispute toy) may motivate them to resolve their differences.

Fair is fair

  • Don’t label a child “selfish” or show disapproval over unwillingness to share. Make a point of sharing yourself, and make sure about your children observant and noticed the same.
  • Make sure your children have right to their own things. It’s hard for them to share if they’re not secure and guilt free about ownership. Allow them not to share certain things, if they wish.
  • Let one child cut the cake or divide the treat, and let the other child get first pick, if they are fighting about fairness.
  • Tell your child who doesn’t want to share, “when you’re finished playing with the toy, your sister (or brother) may have it.” This lets your child know someone’s waiting, but eliminates the distress of giving up the toys.
  • Set a timer to ring when it’s time to exchange toys
  • Assign each child a special day or days (like Monday, Wednesday, and Friday) when the child can make certain decisions, select menus, be first at something and so on.
  • Play the “stone game .”put a small stone in one hand, the child who picks the correct hand gets first choice.
  • Avoid fights over similar objects such as pails , shovels, and balls by assigning a colour to each child and buying those items

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